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“This parenting book actually made me a better parent.”—Lydia Kiesling, The New York Times

From #1 New York Times bestselling authors, the ultimate “parenting bible” (The Boston Globe)—a timeless, beloved book on how to effectively communicate with your child.

This bestselling classic by internationally acclaimed experts on communication between parents and children includes fresh insights and suggestions, as well as the author’s time-tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including innovative ways to:

· Cope with your child’s negative feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment
· Express your strong feelings without being hurtful
· Engage your child’s willing cooperation
· Set firm limits and maintain goodwill
· Use alternatives to punishment that promote self-discipline
· Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise
· Resolve family conflicts peacefully

Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, Faber and Mazlish’s down-to-earth, respectful approach makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding.

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A must-have guide for anyone who lives or works with young kids, with an introduction by Adele Faber, coauthor of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk From tantrums to technology to talking to kids about tough topics, How To Talk When Kids Won’t Listen offers concrete strategies for these and many more difficult situations.

ASIN ‏ : ‎ 1451663889
Publisher ‏ : ‎ Scribner; Updated edition (February 7, 2012)
Language ‏ : ‎ English
Paperback ‏ : ‎ 384 pages
ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 9781451663884
ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1451663884
Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 6.7 ounces
Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 1.1 x 8.44 inches
Reviewer: Nolan Lee
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title: essential skills for parenting
Review: This book provides clear and actionable insights to improve your communication and relationship with your kids. I’ve implemented some of the skills and noticed immediate successes. It’s a parent must read.

Reviewer: aniroche22
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title: The Most Practical Parenting Book I've Ever Read!
Review: I cannot say enough good things about this book. I picked it up while visiting my sister and couldn't put it down! Each chapter focuses on relevant and practical parenting issues and gives clear and manageable advice. Instead of telling parents to just be more patient, it actually provides simple things you can do and say (seriously, exact words and phrases) in the moment. You can practice these tips and get better, which is really encouraging.It also doesn't beat you up for failing. The authors recognize that parents are people and have real feelings, so their advice never feels shaming or patronizing. I found this particularly refreshing because authors of parenting books usually seem perfect and are totally unrelatable.I have found that my mindset has shifted quite a bit since reading this book. I'm actually planning to pick it up and go through it again to help reinforce the techniques. I HIGHLY recommend reading this!

Reviewer: itstabbyjo
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title: 11/10 Parenting Book
Review: I recommend this book to all current or aspiring parents to read, especially those who have toddlers and have some trying times in the future. There's a nice workbook area in each chapter which is so handy so you can truly work out your own thoughts/feelings throughout to get practice on it all. Plus there's real-life scenarios for things that many of us parent's can relate to which is helpful to bring it into the real world and not just read it and forget about it within the next 10 minutes. It talks a lot about bringing yourself down from those big feelings and allowing your child to feel them, but also helping them work through those feelings themselves.

Reviewer: Joni Rozich
Rating: 4.0 out of 5 stars
Title: Dated but helpful
Review: The foundational concepts in this book are helpful and can be translated to today’s challenges, but you can definitely tell the majority of the book was written a while ago. Lots of opportunity for self reflection and role playing. Overall I’d recommend to friends.

Reviewer: DJ
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title: Good book
Review: Helpful book to help have a better relationship with your child

Reviewer: Goingdancing
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title: This and "Siblings Without Rivalry"....two thumbs up.
Review: This book became my parenting "Bible" when my kids were younger, along with "Siblings Without Rivalry" (by the same authors), which is another must-have. I just happened to pick this up in a bookstore many years ago, and have been recommending it ever since. I should say here, that I was a School Psychologist, who also utilized these communication skills when dealing with students. I read where someone said in their review "Nothing I didn't know". Well, we all know some pieces of it...not to scream, not to belittle, not to condemn...but not everyone knows what to do instead. It's also important that you remember the title of the book is "How To Talk So kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will Talk". It's about communicating better, and improving interpersonal skills. If you have a problem with your child seriously abusing drugs, then I'd suggest that you read this while your child is receiving appropriate treatment. It's not a "cure-all' for every possible issue.... although many (myself included) would say that poor communication can certainly be a causal factor behind many other "behaviors". Once you understand & integrate the authors concepts, they make perfect sense, and the authors make understanding simple, by presenting the material in an easy-read/comic form with a multitude of examples. After all, conscientious, loving and well-meaning parents need help, too, and this book can provide just that. If you just feel like you're not connecting with your child, and they're turning away from you rather than allowing you to be a support for them, try reading this. You don't have much to lose (a little time reading & a little bit of $) and you might find that a small change in YOUR behavior can lead to a big change in theirs (I did), and open the door to better communication....not to mention a more satisfying & less stressful family life. What could be better than that?

Reviewer: Mama llama
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title: Good activity book
Review: This isn’t just a good read but also a good activity book. If u have kids that are just a handful ur not alone read this book to help make it easier.

Reviewer: Garrett
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title: Highly recommend
Review: I reading this for the second sometime because I want to take notes. There are questions posed to the reader which is helpful to apply it to your is. Life. An easy read and helped me be reflective in my parenting style

Reviewer: Kindle Customer
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
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Review: This book is so inspiring and refreshing. It saved my family life and relationships with my kids. The advice provided are practical and work even with small kids. I totally recommend!

Reviewer: Jaiswal
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title:
Review: Liked the simple strategies and suggestions for different situations while handling the kids. Good for teachers also.

Reviewer: Galactickim
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title:
Review: About half a year ago I started dating a man with 6 and 8 year old kids. I don't have kids of my own, so I really need help in how to navigate relationship dynamics communication. I just finished reading this book and already have tried a few of the techniques with success, and can envision how the techniques would have helped with past issues my partner and I have had with the kids. My partner can't wait to read this too.What I love about the book: gets straight into practical, easy-to-use steps to deal with the most common things we struggle with. This book is super easy to read, makes so much sense, and uses a variety of examples and cartoons to help hammer home the points. My sense is that this book will actually help all relationships and communication, not just with kids. I know that if my parents, partner, and coworkers used some of the communication strategies in this book I'd be a lot happier!

Reviewer: Mariam
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title:
Review: Very informative! Opens your eyes and changes the way you talk and engage woth kids

Reviewer: Ricardo
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
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Review: It's quite amazing how good this book can work. It is very easy explained and it has a lot of draws and examples. It's also very realistic: It never sells magic solutions, nor says everything will work for everybody. So, it's like being in a workshop with another parents, but in your home and in your own.