2024 the best-selling book on happiness review

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New York Times and Wall Street Journal bestseller

A step-by-step plan clinically proven to break the cycle of worry and fear that drives anxiety and addictive habits

We are living through one of the most anxious periods any of us can remember. Whether facing issues as public as a pandemic or as personal as having kids at home and fighting the urge to reach for the wine bottle every night, we are feeling overwhelmed and out of control. But in this timely book, Judson Brewer explains how to uproot anxiety at its source using brain-based techniques and small hacks accessible to anyone.

We think of anxiety as everything from mild unease to full-blown panic. But it's also what drives the addictive behaviors and bad habits we use to cope (e.g. stress eating, procrastination, doom scrolling and social media). Plus, anxiety lives in a part of the brain that resists rational thought. So we get stuck in anxiety habit loops that we can't think our way out of or use willpower to overcome. Dr. Brewer teaches us to map our brains to discover our triggers, defuse them with the simple but powerful practice of curiosity, and to train our brains using mindfulness and other practices that his lab has proven can work.

Distilling more than 20 years of research and hands-on work with thousands of patients, including Olympic athletes and coaches, and leaders in government and business, Dr. Brewer has created a clear, solution-oriented program that anyone can use to feel better - no matter how anxious they feel.

Publisher ‏ : ‎ Avery (August 30, 2022)
Language ‏ : ‎ English
Paperback ‏ : ‎ 304 pages
ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 059342140X
ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0593421406
Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 2.31 pounds
Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.46 x 0.8 x 8.25 inches
Reviewer: Leon H.
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title: Must Read!
Review: This book is amazing! All high performing people that struggle with anxiety should read this book. It may save your life!

Reviewer: Tom
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title: Went from skeptical to positive belief and results - shockingly good (updated, 2x)
Review: [Second update, a month or two after having finished the audiobook -- raising from 4, up to 5 stars]So, I have understood and naturally implement much of the general gist of the book. I am remembering back to not very long ago when I was walking around the bookstore and looking for a book to help with anxiety. I feel so much better now. I do have little bouts of anxiety and for whatever reason (i.e. using whichever ideas/practices in this book that I now use) I relatively quickly manage to let that anxiety go and then I feel nice and good, and can go back to everyday life.I definitely would love to go back through the audiobook and kindle book (bought both) again in the future for a deeper round of learning. There are a lot of good practices and ideas in there which I skimmed on my first round through. That said, I don't feel like a humongous need to go deeper, at least not right now...I have a lot more energy and attention to spend on other life endeavors...All of this said, caveats I would share...I hadn't felt anxiety forever. I have experienced depression more often in the past. I also found over the years that various symptoms I had matched up to trauma, or Complex PTSD (not an official US diagnosis, but recognized in other places, and is definitely "a real thing" per my experience and reading). I had done enough "therapy that works with trauma symptoms" and done enough healing with that, and then over time was feeling a lot of anxiety for a while. This idea from polyvagal theory suggests that "the freeze response" can "lock down" your feelings of anxiety, and as the freeze response comes up, you are going to feel more of that anxiety from the past. Or that's how I understand it. In any case...for me, this book has helped let go of these anxiety loops, or whatever.Highly recommend for anyone experiencing anxiety, short-term or long-term; of course I only have used it based on my past and life experience, so I can only guarantee that it worked for me! :)---[First update, after initial review -- 3-4 days after getting the book, about 67% through it, raising from 2 up to 4 stars][initial title: Not clear to me that this book is really about ANXIETY... (updated, 2x)]So, as I wrote this update, I was initially updating from 2 to 3 stars, but after I finished writing this update, I'm now updating to 4 stars. I suspect that I may come back to this in the next month, after more time with the book, and eventually update to 5 stars!From earlier part of my review, I said he hypothesized [anxiety is actually caused by different "habits" you have] -- I did review the chapter where he made this case, and I understood this a bit more deeply, and was better convinced. And funny enough, I already forgot the rationale, but it made sense to me, I trusted it, and then tried "doing the work" a bit more...And...as for the "doing the work" I began to see some habit/pattern I do that seems VERY LIKELY CONNECTED TO ANXIETY... Its a habit I've had for a while. And it goes something like this. TRIGGER: "Something happens and I feel some discomfort in my body" -- BEHAVIOR: "I either 'know how to fix the external problem that caused my discomfort' or 'have an idea of which book I should read to fix the external problem that caused my discomfort' and I immediately jump into action to fix or figure out the problem!" -- RESULT: "I might actually fix the 'problem', or I learn some stuff about how to have a better chance of fixing the 'problem' in the future, and I become more certain that 'I know how to fix things in general'"And so...the self-perpetuating problem was that I kept trying to fix 'external problems' -- what I've noticed as I've begun trying to do what this book is talking about doing...is that I may be better able to tolerate "letting little things go" to a greater degree. Like...these are REALLY small things, here is a small example...At the bookstore today, some employee told a lady there that she was not allowed to take pictures with her phone of the inside pages of a book, saying something about "copyright laws." Seems reasonable enough, but I felt a bit skeptical. My thought process went like this: "Hold on...is this guy saying that if I buy a book and take a picture of a page with my phone at home, then I'm breaking the law? If that's true...maybe I'd believe that...but is this guy going to be in my home to enforce the copyright law? No...so why does he believe he can enforce the law in the bookstore..." I mean...to be clear, I do find these questions to be super interesting questions to answer! And I initially thought I would google the answer(s) to these questions on my phone, out of curiosity... BUT, at the end of the day...did the answers to those questions matter? They sort of do...for curiosities sake, and understanding laws can help my future business and career success... But they aren't questions I needed the answer to.And...if I WERE to google the question to that answer, I would have been perpetuating a cycle where "I feel discomfort...THEN I do something to alleviate that discomfort...THEN I might feel better..." and in the end that cycle keeps going, forever...every time I disagree with someone, I HAVE to look it up...and then I feel better. But the whole point of this book is to just...stop perpetuating the cycle. (Or that's how its looking to me!)----[Initial review, wrote the first part of this 1-2 days after getting the book, and about 50% through the book -- initially rated as 2 stars]His "hypothesis" (not calling it a "theory" since I don't see the evidence to support this) seems to be:- anxiety is actually caused by different "habits" you have- if you map you your habit loops- and if you just feel/sense what happens in your body in these loops (what he calls "2nd gear" I think)- then you will eventually feel betterunfortunately- I'm not clear whether or not I trust these claims- this "2nd gear" thing...just makes me want to lay down and be a zombie all the time (i.e. what I believe is "the freeze response" in trauma lingo). its unclear whether he's saying "oh just lay down in a freeze state forever and then your anxiety will eventually go away..."in teh end, as others have said, this book seems to be about HABITS not ANXIETY...

Reviewer: CeeMac
Rating: 4.0 out of 5 stars
Title: Helpful
Review: This book is easy to understand and grasp. I appreciated the enthusiasm leaping off the page and the straightforward approach to what feels like an almost insurmountable problem: anxiety.I got a little lost with all the acronyms, but decided to bypass them so I could focus on the book’s encouraging message of reassurance that anxiety can be worked with, not just suffered through.This book also indulges in a tactic I’ve noticed in many other non fiction books geared toward helping people. In some places it feels like an extended ad to buy into the app that is associated with the work. I don’t dispute that an app that works well, is researched and well supported costs money. It’s a peeve of mine to read a book to get more knowledge about something that interests me only to feel I’m being worked for another sale. It took away some of the excitement of feeling the advice being offered were practices I could actually have success with.Other than the acronyms and the sales pitches, I believe Dr. Brewer has written a truly helpful book and I’m already practicing his suggestions. It’s an easy read, and if you’re someone who would like support through an app, you’ll find that here as well.

Reviewer: mmonica
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title: good read with evidence based research
Review: It is a meaningful book with a lot of scientific evidence and real experiences from people who have tried and successfully broken out of habit loops that are destructive to their lives.

Reviewer: J. Taub
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title: A deeply humanistic, eminently readable book that will change the way you think about Anxiety.
Review: This is neither a self-help book, nor a heavy duty science manual. It is an eminently readable book that explains how "anxiety loops" are created by our minds and how to use a series of awareness and mindfulness tools to "break the loop" and reprogram the brain to observe and accept anxiety, then move on.The author, Dr. Jud Brewer, is an addiction psychiatrist and neuroscientist at Brown University. He also is the head of research of their world renowned "Brown University Mindfulness Center". Unwinding Anxiety follows Dr. Brewer's previous book, "The Carving Mind", in which he discusses reprograming the mind to break habits (and addictions!) such as smoking or using cell phones.In Unwinding Anxiety, Dr. Brewer writes with a similar style - personal anecdotes, stories from his lab, easily understandable descriptions of complex brain mechanisms - to explain how anyone can decrease their anxiety creating habits. Although a significant part of this is using mindfulness and awareness, there is nothing esoteric about his research and methods, no religion involved, definitely no chanting, and no major time commitment. Dr. Brewer is an expert in how to apply mindfulness to improving one's health - in this case mental health - and the techniques he offers require nothing other than your own brain, self introspection and some basic motivation.Dare I say this is a page turner? I am not not a scientist, not an expert in the brain, and yet, once I started reading this book, I couldn't put it down. I will definitely apply several of the techniques offered by Dr. Brewer, and reading his book also made me curious about his app, of the same name (Unwinding Anxiety).Anxiety seems to be one of the greatest challenges of our society, certainly here in the US. Medication is usually the standard treatment, and SSRIs certainly have helped millions of people. Nonetheless, we have tools to deal with Anxiety within us, and they don't require much other than our minds and a little effort and time. Whether this is to complement other treatments or a starting point, I believe that Unwinding Anxiety can change lives. It is a deeply humanistic book, one which will make you think about yourself, laugh from time to time, and who knows, it might have a long lasting impact on your mental health.

Reviewer: Jennifer Reis
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title:
Review: This book is an interesting one, it has a mix of easy to read and difficult to understand text. The book provides the mechanics of how our human brain works and how anxiety is built upon that, that explanation of the parts of the brain may get confusing for someone that is not interested in the biology part; luckily it is only a small part of the book. The book helps to identify what triggers anxieties and provides some practical methods to address and useful in my routine. It is definitely one of those books that is worth revisiting.

Reviewer: Jesús E.
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title:
Review: Almost never i write any kind of review, but this book deserves one and a 5 stars rating. I have anxiety disorder, and even if "anxiety" is in the title, this works for addictions and bad habits in general. In the sake of being precise, i can just describe this books as a useful guide to work with X problem involving either anxiety or a bad habit, like drinking, smoking or over eating (so yeah, it's a practical book) and also like a very compassionate, easy to read, and kind book, and it feels like talking to a friend. As somebody who reads daily, this has become one of my top 3 books of the year. Beautiful! 🙂

Reviewer: Liane Lanzoni
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title:
Review: Esse livro resume o trabalho do autor sobre ansiedade durante 8 anos. É uma preciosidade pela clareza da discussão dos conceitos e pela metodologia simples e pratica que podemos aplicar nas nossas vidas. Recomendo com a certeza de que vai ajudar outros, além de mim.

Reviewer: Book came damaged ripped and dirty
Rating: 1.0 out of 5 stars
Title:
Review: The book came with front page ripped and damaged, the pages are dirty and core of the book is dirty, so dissapointed

Reviewer: Wig-Carol
Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Title:
Review: Dr Jud Brewer muss einer / eine unbedingt kennen!Lesen ist schön man bekommt eine Ahnung... Aber mit der App UA "unwinding anxiety" zu lernen wie man mit dem eigenen Hirn umgeht ist noch besser...